Yo @Jeroth how was that last crazy month?
Went to a convention which was really nice. I got my small asian friend shitfaced and had a good time dancing with a girl in a virgin killer sweater.
The last weekend was very nice at the start. Here's the brief rundown:
Wednesday: 7 hour drive to Massachusetts, had dinner with my family and sister-in-law. Got tipsy and had a good time with my brother and sister-in-law boosting my confidence about how I looked and how good it was to see me.
Thursday: Day before wedding. Dinner rehearsal and met the in-laws. They were pretty chill. Helped them set up, took photos and got relatively tipsy/drunk. Went and drank more while meeting brother's friends. Sloppiest that I've been but I was fine. Got back okay and slept for hours.
Friday:
Incredibly hung-over. Thankful the wedding was at 6:30. Got breakfast with my Aunt and Uncle while hungover and mumbling. Went back upstairs and laid there drinking water. Wandered outside and walked half a mile for ice cream and coffee. Ran into brother's friend and wife from the other night. Got ice cream and coffee. Walked back. Got prepared for the wedding and photos. Dad was struggling with steps and had trouble breathing. Drove down to pick him up and dropped him off.
Actual wedding went well. Tried my hardest to not embarrass myself in front of my brother's millionaire boss. Ended up networking with my brother's friends/coworker. They both insisted to shoot them an email later in the week about who I was, where we met and my interests for job placement. One of them was a grown ass man who is a Director of business development in labratory services. The other guy was roughly five years older than me, looked like Rob Lowe, and bonded with me. We laughed about how we struggled to get into different fields and discussed how ridiculous it is to get a job along with the lack of loyalty for companies. I got more photos and a video of the first dance. The food was ballin'. I drank a fair amount and got some good photos of the landscaping (Beautiful area.) I met the only single girl there who adored my brother and his wife and was incredibly blunt. Spent some more time before heading back. Dad was agitated and didn't have his medication. He was argumentative and my mother was upset from how he was acting.
Go back to my hotel via the shuttle bus since I wanted to avoid my folks since they were having arguments. On the shuttle bus with the single girl and the Rob Lowe doppelganger along with some others. Single girl wants to go out and drink more but there's nothing open. Night ends and I change out of my tuxedo, put on more casual clothes and go knock on her door. She opens the door, slightly surprised and asks what's up. I thank her for her honesty and end up talking to her about how I appreciated her honesty and talked with her more about the arts and my passions in terms of the Arts. Her and I spoke at length about it and she mentioned how I should pursue it since it seems like the one thing I get really excited about. We talk about life in general, struggling, order and chaos. Overall, she heads to bed and I go outside to mellow out and enjoy the night sky since it's a small town and you can see stars (Bad idea: Mosquito bites suck, yo.) After about 5-10 minutes, I head back in since I have brunch that I forgot about.
Saturday: Wake up early, get breakfast before brunch, shower and feel accomplished. Get a text that my Dad's hernia popped out and my mom needs an ice bag. Nearest CVS is about half a mile away and the shuttle arrives in 8 minutes. I sprint down the street, rush to a CVS, struggle to find an ice bag and run back catching the shuttle at the other hotel. Sweating with an ice bag in hand, I board the bus to see Rob Lowe look-alike and chill indian anesthesiologist. Smol Single Girl gets on at the other stop and I talk to the three of them about model UN and get good business advice. Get there and my brother and his wife are late, so I have to play host.
I start drinking mimosas, asking about life and gliding in conversation. More people show up and I nervously look at the time, since I want to deliver this ice bag down the street to my parents. Brother and wife show up, I hug him, tell him that I'll be back in a bit, casually leave before bursting into a sprint to get to the hotel. My father is in bed, pale and wheezing. My mother looks panicked. I get the ice bag, get ice, fill it and get more ice. My mother asks me to head back and that he'll be all right. Jog back to join them and have a few more mimosas and lunch. My brother pulls me aside and we go to see my Mom and Dad. We drag my mom out for a drink after making sure he's okay(TM). My brother comes back and asks the anesthesiologist about certain anesthesia when it comes to COPD patients and we get my mom a drink. People start filtering out and we head back.
Mom tries to wrap wedding gifts and my dad rests while the "kids" go out. We get coffee, I get ice cream, they get christmas ornaments as gifts for my folks. Come back, open wedding gifts. We drive to the in-laws and I want to go with them since I want to avoid arguments. They gladly take my along. I take photos, help with everything else. We ask the mother-in-law advice for when it comes to my Dad's condition and then I get a text and call from my Aunt. Apparently my Dad isn't doing well. Brother and his wife drive the three of us over. Go to check on him and he looks terrible. We start to gather the advice for what hospital to take him to.
To give context: My dad is incredibly stubborn and stingy and frequently refuses medical treatment)
9:00 PM: He gets up out of bed and immediately vomits green with specks of black. My brother immediately calls 911. Dad vomits a total of four times.
~9:15-20 PM: Ambulance shows up.
~10:00 PM: He gets delivered to the hospital that we wanted to avoid since my sister-in-law's grandfather was killed there due to lack of precaution on their end.
~11:00 PM: Tests have run and they think that a chunk of his intestine slipped out through the hernia. They believe there's a chance that it could be dead and they prepare for emergency surgery to fix it.
~12:00AM: Dad is promptly drained of all the bile. About 500 mL of bile is drained from him.
~2:00 AM: Surgery is a-go. We are not told how long it would take. He gets moved. We go to the private waiting room near the critical care unit.
~3:00 AM: My brother is pacing and cursing under his breath. His wife is asleep. My mother is frantic. I'm currently pacing and visiting the chapel inside of the hospital. I give a half-ass prayer standing in front of the cross.
~3:15 AM: I return to the chapel give a casual prayer on my knees. Brother is practically standing in front of the surgery entrance doors.
~3:30 AM: I find myself visiting the chapel, give the sign of the cross, kneel down and recite the Lord's Prayer, ask for a safe surgery and for my father's pain to be eased. Start to reading pamphlets on dealing with loss.
~3:45AM: I start staring with my brother and pacing as my mother looks nervously at the clock.
~4:00 AM: I walk back to check on my Mom. The Surgeon casually waddles out and goes: "he's good." My mother is relieved; I started sprinting and yell at my brother. My brother runs over, looks at the surgeon and hug him tightly.
~4:15AM: My dad is okay, witty and cracking jokes. We make sure he's okay, find his room in the main hospital, and leave him because we need to leave.
~4:45 AM: Get into the car, look for breakfast places.
4:58 AM: Stare inside of a coffee shop as they try to open.
5:00 AM: I eat quiche, blueberry muffin and cranberry juice as we talk about plans. It may take a few days to recover and we were supposed to leave today. Oh.. by the way:
Sunday Morning
~6:30 AM: Drop my mother off at her hotel, leave a message to extend the hotel another day. Leave a voicemail.
~7:15: Get dropped off and my brother calls the innkeeper to let me stay a day.
~7:30: pass out.
I stay in bed and sleep until the afternoon and deal with shoddy internet as I try to get over what happened. Eventually roll out of bed to have a triple of ice cream and a large frozen coffee. Stop and get pizza on the way. Hear back from my family around 6:30 for a plan. Visiting hours end at 8 and my mother needed to shower. I go to get food and have clam chowder with a fish sandwich to go at 7. I get a slice of pizza for my mom before we speed over. We get to the hospital at 7:48 and visit him for an hour. My mom is hungry and so am I. She has two bites of the pizza and we drive to McDonalds. We get good food and I drive her to a Cumberland farms to get yogurt/milk. I get a few protein bars and soda. I stubbornly take my protein bars, soda and fish sandwich to my room.
THIS IS WHERE I MAKE MY GRAVE MISTAKE: I eat the fish sandwich. I think everything will be okay. I watch some stuff and go to bed after feeling weird.
Monday: I wake up and feel off. My stomach feels off and I start showering. I realize what I did wrong and head downstairs to check out in time. We go to my Mother's room where I wait. My brother is dropping off my Dad and I'm feeling weak. I swaddle myself in a blanket. My mother thinks I'm overreacting since she thinks it's really hot. I had a bad fever. I mention the fish sandwich and tartar sauce issue. She scolds me. My dad shows up, we say good-bye to my brother because he's going on a month-long honeymoon in europe. When he leaves, my dad immediately asks for his medication and a pack of cigarettes. This starts the long 6-7 hour drive back where Dave is sleeping, sweating, shivering and stumbling his way through rest stops while nibbling on bland cookies, crackers and ginger ale with water. I make it home, take a long shower, sleep. I wake up, sweating and feeling weak, have some rice and sleep more.
Tuesday: I wake up sweaty but feel fine otherwise. I did nothing but game and relax. My stomach feels fine now.
Anyway, I meant to make a short post, but this turned out to be long.