tl;dr a girl I work with at camp who is a good friend and someone I like/would love if I had the opportunity was randomly a bitch to me and ignored me for no reason, admitted that was the case and apologized for it just now, so give me suggestions on what to say to her in reply while I let her wait a bit before texting her.
So this chick I'm friends with (who I also like, honestly) started ignoring me about two weeks after summer camp ended. We used to talk every day after my first summer, so basically a whole year. We had a great time this past summer, but nothing ever came of it romantically. I was okay with that, I still care about her a lot and she's a great friend, so I didn't really worry.
Then when she started ignoring me, I thought she was just being depressed or sad or whatever like people do sometimes. She did it once or twice and there was always something actually wrong at the time that she needed help with. I would eventually get her to open up and talk about it and things would get better.
So, background info out of the way, she started ignoring me hardcore. Like fucking really hard. I would try to get her to open up about it but she would shut me down or give me one sentence answers and then say nothing else at all. You guys know me, when it's clear you're just ignoring me for no good reason or you simply don't wanna talk to me, I'll just accept that and move on. I'm not worth your time, you're not worth mine sorta deal.
So to the fun part of the story. After nearly a month and a half of her not talking to me at all and me not even trying to talk to her, she sent me a text saying "Sorry for being a bitch and ignoring you. You've helped me out so many times. You didn't deserve that. I'm really sorry." I'm not petty, but I said "I win" after I got that text, so maybe I'm at least feeling a little petty.
Of course I'm gonna reply back with a nice message, but I'm not gonna let her off the hook so easily. There's gotta be a reason why she even did it in the first place, so I'm gonna grill her for it. Feel free to hit with some suggestions of what I should reply. Right now I'm just letting her wait a bit before texting back. I'm being bitchy/douchey, but fuck it, she can wait thirty minutes for a text.