Try a volunteer organization or group. Something like the Peace Corps or something. You can also always learn a trade, they're relatively cheap. The military is a good option, but it's not your only option. After what my brother has told me about the military, I've decided to not join it myself. I'm considering becoming a teacher if I don't get to join my master's program at my current school.
Anyways, suffice it to say, you tried something and that's better than can be said for most people in this world. Things didn't go the way they were expected to, but sometimes that happens. Don't let this discourage you, however. Work towards fixing what's wrong, with determination and elbow grease, you can do this shit. You can also make something of yourself, absolutely, so again, don't get discouraged. Shit happens, but you can make it through this.
Also, I know you didn't ask for help or anything like that, but this is me we're talking about. I just do this shit, haha. It's my thing, I suppose. Nevertheless, you got this shit, Shizno. Go find a thing that you think is fuckin' neato and then go do the thing!